for boots, go to south drachvald spur. for legs, talk to simone in ardoris, but she may have other things for you to do first.
There are resources online/youtube for the leather helm and chest of love, but I find no information online on the location of the leather gauntlets of love. Can anyone throw out a clue, please? The only reference I find here on the gauntlets is an old thread describing a bug related to them and the existence of "altruistic monks," which I've never ran across. Thanks
I got the quest for the altruist monk in the Troll Encounter south of Sawtooth Thicket. You have to kill 2 Mountain Trolls though and then might get a pilgrim entering the scene to start the quest. I could not progress the quest though as I could not find the monk in Etceter (should be near the docks); did not try other towns...
Searching for information on the "leather gauntlets of love" was a fruitless endeavor (and literally brings up zero results in the search field, oddly!). However, I came upon a thread on the wider topic of "virtue armor" that addresses specifically what I am looking for. This may help others as well. https://www.shroudoftheavatar.com/forum/index.php?threads/virtue-armor-quest.110070/
If you do a stag, dog, bandit, wolf encounter, after you clear it all, look around. Perhaps a pilgrim will run to the center of the scene! Chat him up, you could get all your heart desires!