Well I am trucking right along and trying to find outskirt of solace bridge again so I wind up back on solace bridge, Soltown, I even went up to the new player starting area and talked to the NPC up there. So I finally find Solace Bridge Outskirts and find the trainer there. I buy a new armor skill glancing blow because I have gone from chain to plate and I might as well be getting all the benefits from the heavy armor. I go to edit my combat deck with the y key. I get the message "You have not yet unlock the ability to use combat decks"..... but I have. In fact I had been using that hotbar editor alot. I honestly think it was when I went back to that npc in the new player starting area that the quest somehow got lost or overwritten in the database. Anyhow some 1 got changed to a 0 or vice versa somewhere. Good luck and wish me luck too.